I take it all back. I totally made the right call, and I totally read those alarms and my gut right. YAY GUT!
I thought it went so well last night! Reese was so understanding. But he was just saving it up...
Today: email. Angry email. Bitter, seething, crazy, angry email. Woah.
Basically, he was pissed. I was a liar. I'd lied about everything! I was a horrible person with no soul who lies and steals and eats babies and murders helpless seniors! Okay, he didn't say those things, but he did call me a liar. Said I made up the bats to avoid spending time with him. Said I'd lied about having to pack for my canoe trip! I didn't understand. Did he mean I'd lied about the canoe trip or just the packing part? Because most people do pack for trips!
Reese said he'd taken a sick day today, his first all year, because he'd been up all night with grief. I guess I should be flattered that after just four dates he was so in love with me that this broke him, but on the other hand... that's not normal is it?
He signed off with, "Whatever, this honey badger don't give a shit." I disagree Mr. Badger. You seem to give a whole *lot* of shits!
Why do guys do this? This isn't the first time I've gotten that bitter, scathing email within 24 hours of breaking up with someone I had only had a few dates with, and who seemed to be perfectly fine with it all. Is your ego just that damaged? Is this saving face? Are you generally deranged? Or am I the *worst* dumper ever?!? Maybe this is why I play the martyr and let people dump me. Just to avoid THIS!
In any case, I definitely made the right call if this is who he really is. Dodged a bullet there. Phew. I'm also guessing that he does not, in fact, want to go kayaking sometime. Oh well.
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